Onto my first topic... "bitchassness"
Bitchasses is a a term coined by the ever so popular Puff Daddy/Diddy/Puffy/etc during making the band 4 (I show in which I love.....maybe because of my ghetto side?) Basically the term means overall stank actions towards others through words or actions.
Well, I recently came across many people who have this particular quality about them. I've been recently (by recently I would say the last 4 months) hanging out with the Asian crowd and even though it was against what I stood for....I even started to frequent Asian clubs. Dear lord...what was I thinking. It wasn't all too bad and I met what I thought were cool people who I had the wrong perception of. Well being that the Asian society is a tight knit group that all roll in the same circle, I was considered the new guy in this circle. Apparently after 4 months, I didn't fit in too well because the people who I thought were friends or could be friends all started not to like me....just out of the blue (I know what you're thinking.....who on earth couldn not like me?). It all spawned from an individual who was jealous and who shall remain nameless only because I do have a little class. Jealous why you say? I mean just off the top of my head I'm tall/handsome/easy to talk to/have a sense of style/well spoken/all around cool....but then again that was just off the top of my head. With all that in mind...I started to get the shoulder from him....then other people in the group....hated so much that he in turn spreads rumors and lies about me.
Now those who know me know that none of it is remotely true and those who do believe can kiss my ass...haha. Now...this aggravated me not because I lost friends but I hate when people say things that aren't true about me. I have a tight knit group of friends already and I'm incredibly likable...I make friends easily. Not only that....none of them could not even man up and go to me directly. I mean, I guessed if you're over 18 then it's only common knowledge that if you have a problem with someone then you go right to the source and not spread rumors like a little bitch. And the thing is....it doesn't phase me one bit and I know they, on the other hand, know they fucked up...for real.
It is what it is....there will be haters out there and I for one love haters. Haters = jealousy...I don;t mind people being jealous of me one bit! Bring em on! The more the merrier.
So blog post #1.....lesson is.....stay away from bitchassness.....thank you
1 comment:
ummm....u sound bitter. bet i will follow ur tip and stay far far away from bitchassness or whatever it was called LOL ;) xoxo
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